Tuesday, August 19, 2014

kale tabbouleh with tomatoes and cucumbers

August is the season where I serve supper and my husband weeps.


I’m not trying to make him cry. I’m actually being a conscientious, upright, in-tune-with-mother-earth-type person. In other words, I forage in the garden for what’s ripe and then slap it on the table. One night there was a delightful bulgur salad along with corn on the cob. The next night I served a mountain of corn on the cob and leftover peas.

The food was delicious—people pay big bucks for fresh veggies, you know—but throughout the meal my husband wore an aggrieved expression. Sure enough, a couple hours later I found him with his head in the fridge, rooting around for something to more to eat.

Me: You hungry?

Him: I need food, Jennifer. Food! I already made three eggs and I’m still famished. I! Am! Hungry!

And then he whimpered.

So the next day I went shopping for food. I bought snacks and apples and ham. I made big, husband-pleasing plans for pizza and pastas and taco salad. (The tomato sandwiches, pesto with candied cherry tomatoes, and roasted beets I’ll slip in around the edges.)

In the meantime, the leftover bulgur salad is all mine. I’ve been eating great mounds of it for my lunches. It makes me feel virtuous, energetic, and only a wee bit resentful that my husband isn’t as nuts about it as I am. Because it is the perfect lunch salad.

Also, regarding this food preference difference: is there actually a gender-based divide in taste preferences?  Is there truth to the stereotype that (more) men like wings, burgers, and pizza and (more) women like mushrooms, blue cheese, and kale? Is it sexist to even raise such a question?


Kale Tabbouleh with Tomatoes and Cucumbers
Adapted from Aimee of Simple Bites

for the salad:
1 cup bulgur
8-10 leaves of kale
1½  - 2 cups chopped tomatoes
2 medium cucumbers, peeled and chopped
1/4 cup minced onion
½ cup fresh parsley, chopped
½ cup mint leaves, chopped

for the dressing
2 tablespoons olive oil
1/4 cup fresh lemon juice
½ teaspoon balsamic vinegar
½ teaspoon salt
freshly ground black pepper

Put the bulgur in a bowl and cover with two cups of boiling water. Let sit until the bulgur is soft and the water is absorbed. (If there is any extra water, drain it off.)

Whisk the dressing ingredients together in a small bowl. Set aside.

Wash the kale, remove the tough stem, and mince the leaves. Drizzle the leaves with 1 tablespoon of the dressing. Using your hands, massage the dressing into the kale leaves until they are glossy and soft.

Add the kale, tomatoes, cucumber, onion, mint, and parsley to the bulgur. Toss with the rest of the dressing. Serve at room temperature.

Leftovers can be refrigerated for several days. They make perfect lunches (for the non meat-eaters among us).

This same time, years previous: the quotidian (8.19.13), basic fruit crisp, and thoughts on nursing.

7 comments:

  1. This looks delicious to me, but would send my husband to the fridge later too!

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  2. Would chickpeas be an appropriate addition to this? I like the looks of it, but I would need to add something protein-rich to make it a complete meal.

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    1. Absolutely. It'd also be good served in pita along with some hummus. Feta and olives might be nice, too.

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  3. I adore kale as well as tabbouleh but never thought of combining them. What a lovely recipe!

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  4. When we lived in Michigan we had a late 90's vegetarian diet. There was lots of tempeh and chickpeas and whatnot with no complaints from the hubs. After moving to the farm our diet got a lot meatier and just generally farmier. And my husband's physical work increased exponentially. So now he whines if supper is tempeh centric. So I'd say it's more about physical work and less about gender. N of 1, I realize.

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    1. I agree with you here however for us things are a bit backwards. My husband doesn't like to eat much meat or dairy, but I fix it for him anyway because if I don't he just eats all the chocolate chips.

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  5. My husband was a vegetarian when we met. I didn't like touching raw meat, so I never really learned to cook it. We eat meatless most nights - some nights we even go vegan - and it's never been an issue here. Although I have had people ask how I keep my husband satisfied if I don't serve him loads of meat. I guess I just lucked out that he's good with it.

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